Friday, April 13, 2012
Type. Type. Type. Delete...delete...delete...
One thing Vegas is AMAZING for is people watching. Talk about the baseness of humanity. My interactions and observations with several drunkards left me with a new perspective on our inhibitions. It make me think.
I recently started revising one of my novels. I don't love revision--it's not my favorite part. I know several writers who adore the revision process; it's where their juices start flowing. Not me. I was not blessed there. The whole choosing which words to stay, how to phrase and structure, and strengthening. Blah.
But in Vegas, I started wondering about how we as humans edit ourselves. A drunk edits nothing--this I learned.
What would happen if we were handed a transcript at the end of the day of our thoughts, words, and actions? Written out, just as an author writes our for his or her character, in third person objectively. How would we see ourselves? Reading my own thoughts on a page, knowing my latest eye roll is permanently inked, or reading the superfluous amount of words I used in conversation (I'm chatty).
How would I feel? How would you feel?
And what happens if I am required to then give this transcript to another person so THEY can see what I've done with my day?
If I observed this day's worth and went back to edit/revise the way I do my novels--what would I take out? Obviously I would kill the use of words such as "like", "that", and "um". I would clean up my bratty actions and unkind thoughts filled with language I wouldn't dare say aloud.
But that's the thing. All of it is now out loud. By putting something in writing, we force even our character's private most thoughts to be seen (and heard) by all.
Doesn't it make you feel a bit gross?
You can argue "my thoughts are private". But they aren't. Not really. Everything comes out into the light eventually, and God hears it all.
So what do we do with this knowledge? Well, I write this blog, and you read it.
Then we go back to our days as though nothing is different.
We still think ugly thoughts about people: hateful, lustful, greedy, jealous, base.
We still say an inordinate amount of words: Like oh my gosh! So then anyway...(Why do we even need so. then. AND anyway?)
We still make rude gestures and faces at people when we think they can't see.
The only difference between a drunk man and a sober man (or woman) is the drunk is less discrete. He/she announces the thoughts they might've kept private (hateful, lustful, giddy, stupid, complimentary or otherwise). They aren't capable of hiding the eye roll or look of disgust. They slur their words, but still talk incessantly.
So if the only difference is that you don't SEE and HEAR my disgust, but I still think/feel it...how am I any better than a drunk?
And how do I walk away from this blog and keep the lesson I've learned?
Talk less--listen more
Less physical attitude--practice patience and love
Less negativity in my thought life--more prayerful compassion and understanding.
Now what are you going to do about it?